I have prepared this comparison table to help me choose a vector database. I am sharing it here, hoping it may assist you in your projects as well. Main comparison points: cost at scale, compliance, and queries per second (QPS).
I was looking at Pinecone, but if I'm reading this correctly, several open source vector DBs can pull off the same or better QPS and are open source.
I really hope Pinecone doesn't become the defacto vector DB. They're getting all the attention, but they're closed and crazily venture funded. That's going to turn into an Oracle situation fast.
I understand wanting to keep Amazon out of your business, but licences exist that allow that.
Likely there are open-source alternatives, also with managed cloud offerings https://github.com/qdrant/qdrant
Disclaimer: I’m from the team.