I don't know. André Staltz is a great programmer, but I can't help but think what seems "opinionated" to him about promises boils down to the fact that they don't perfectly match certain quasi-ideological preferences he has about async programming, at the expense of all other concerns. As he states at the end, promises still work, you can get things done and everything is fine. But the part about them being opinionated I just can't get behind.
In fact, if promises worked the way he wanted them to, it would hurt the ecosystem in every category he mentions. Lazy promises would cease representing a single value, and be un-cacheable. Promises that didn't flatten inner promises would create endless confusion and ambiguity over "onion-promise" scenarios. Sometimes-synchronous promises would introduce subtle and sometimes catastrophic runtime ambiguities (aka "release zalgo"). Even cancelable promises would raise thorny issues regarding whether promises are intended to be multicast or unicast, which is a problem the current design side-steps entirely.
On opinionated choices: I try to base that on mathematics. When it comes to async programming, that means equational reasoning and following some basic properties such as composition, associativity, left identity, right identity, etc, see https://github.com/fantasyland/fantasy-land . These would be neutral because math is often neutral. For instance, if intelligent aliens exist, they probably figured out the circle just like we did.
On ideological preferences: there isn't anything free of ideology, so yes I am motivated by some ideology, not unlike influential members of TC39. There, you'll often find opposition to functional programming ideas, even though JS was originally designed with influences from Scheme, and allowed functional programming better than, e.g., Java at the time. See these TC39 notes, for instance: https://github.com/tc39/tc39-notes/blob/master/es8/2017-09/s...
FP ideas are usually opposed because TC39 proposals are driven by concrete use cases, and FP is all about abstractions. FP ideology is that abstractions are good because they accomplish abstract goals, not a single particular concrete goal. That does not play well with the use-case-first process at TC39. So, ideologies.
On "it would hurt the ecosystem": I think by now a lot of people from different language communities recognize the success of RxJava/RxJS/Rx.NET, and it tackles all those complications you mentioned, but for even more complex use cases, because it handles multiple values over time. I'm not arguing that Rx is a silver bullet, I'm just saying the Rx community has first hand experience with solving and teaching solutions to the problems you mentioned in the second paragraph and it's nowhere near "catastrophic".