Also, source code is here: https://github.com/valhalla
Since most routing software is proprietary, I think it would be good to combat it by using a strong copyleft on the Valhalla components. GPLv3+ for client software and AGPLv3+ for server software would be awesome.
Glancing at the Valhalla repos, it looks like the MIT license across the board: https://github.com/valhalla ; https://github.com/valhalla/thor/blob/master/COPYING ; https://github.com/valhalla/chef-valhalla/blob/master/LICENS... ; etc...
Also, it's not so much that the routing engines are proprietary -- the best ones are not. The underlying databases are the secret sauce.
what are the best ones?
There's an academic Thesis on the principles of contraction hierarchies that is worth a look if you're in this space. http://algo2.iti.kit.edu/documents/routeplanning/geisberger_... My favorite is actually a Master's thesis that steps through the process of using contraction hierarchies to build a routing engine (MoNav) on OpenStreetMap data. https://code.google.com/p/monav/downloads/detail?name=thesis...
For nuanced or complex problems, set up your objectives and constraints against a good solver: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_optimization_software I'm partial to Google's OR Tools https://github.com/google/or-tools (Apache License).