Stupid question: What open source solution can give me an easy Datadog(ish) experience and is simple to implement?

You should check out SigNoz (https://github.com/SigNoz/signoz) - It's an open source alternative to DataDog with metrics, traces and logs in a single application. You can just self host it yourself or try the hosted version. PS: I am one of the maintainers at SigNoz