What server-side options do we have for QUIC?

Do you mean libraries for backend languages, like Go and Java, or servers, like Nginx and Caddy? Because for Go there is the quic-go module[1], and since Caddy is written in Go, it already has (experimental) support for HTTP/3[2].

[1]: https://github.com/lucas-clemente/quic-go

[2]: https://caddyserver.com/docs/caddyfile/options#protocol