While I love ingenuity of developers at Hasura (because I've been personally through these scaling challenges), I always get a gag reaction with GraphQL. I've honestly tried hard to digest it, and I can tell you at large scale where single DB won't cut it, you would either need to develop a large federation layer like [Netflix](https://netflixtechblog.com/how-netflix-scales-its-api-with-...), or just rip-it out. Streaming might elevate the problem a little, but I real problem still lurks under the hood. The fact that front-end community wants to fit everything under GraphQL bothers me, because every backend developer knows that a single tool/technology is usually not the best tool for solving all problems of your life. Remember the golden words, THERE IS NO SILVER BULLET!
I think graphql with a single db is an odd thing to gain popularity - as the raison d'ĂȘtre for graphql was to federate and proxy different, heterogeneous data sources (databases, json/rest services, soap, other graphql services...).
Speaking of Netflix - I think they had an alternative Api federation service that used some clever tricks with json string vs number keys to allow for alternating http put/get - and through that leverage http level caching. But I can't find the the link...