I don't quite get this. How fast was running this query:

   Select loyaltyMemberID
   from table
   WHERE gender = x
   AND (age = y OR censor = z)
Why the random complexity with individual unions and a group? Of course that's going to be dog slow.

Sure, the filters can be arbitrary but with an ORM it's really really simple to build them up from your app code. The Django ORM with Q objects is particularly great at this.

Obviously I'm armchairing hard here but it smells like over engineering from this post alone. Stuff like this is bread and butter SQL.

Edit: I've just read the query in the post again and I really can't understand why you would write it like that. Am I missing something here?

Seems like a fundamental misunderstanding of SQL rather than a particularly hard problem to solve.

I blame ORMs', if you don't understand SQL and how databases work you should not be allowed to use an ORM. If you know how databases work you, in many cases, will not use an ORM except for the most simple CRUD operations.

I know how databases work and I use a (good) ORM almost exclusively for app work (SQL for exploration usually though). The benefits are huge.

OK, the part about not using ORM if you know SQL is a bit of an exaggeration. At least when you know SQL you know when to use an ORM and when to not use it. If all you know is ORM then you will always use it, and ORM seems to lead to many developers not learning SQL

I think it depends... Who are we talking about here? Juniors, even intermediates, in my experience, haven't had enough time on the job to have learned enough to be writing raw SQL statements or query objects unless they're actively punching up on a daily basis. I am unfortunately talking from experience here.

What I am saying is, I really do not want a situation on my hands where the juniors that I work with, or most of the intermediates, and even a few of the seniors and leads, are writing raw SQL or query objects. Most of these folks have n years of experience in web and desktop application development and couldn't give you a passable answer to simple questions like, "What's a database index?" I know this isn't isolated to my current employer, or former employers, and I've seen it in other organizations where I've done some consulting on the side, and all of these folks I'm talking about here have largely worked else where in the past, too. And this in itself leads to other third-order effects, like the "SQL wizards" who get asked all of the "tough" SQL / database questions.

I want to stress that I understand the point that you're making, and I do agree with it, and of course, so do many (all?) ORM authors themselves, but I think the advice is wrong and is prone to take you to a much worse situation. I think we have an obligation as people who do grok SQL and databases to gently introduce our less experienced co-workers to the idea that ORMs are not a panacea to all database interactions, but until the companies we work have enough of an incentive to give us that sort of time and empowerment then I, for one, am going to recommend ORMs for everyone for everything unless they really, absolutely, demonstrably know what they're doing.

I do also understand your points and think we agree on most. I think that if a "developer" can't write SQL I would not trust that one to set up the ORM correct either. For basic usage, sure they will get it to work and all is good. But when you want to join table or run aggregate functions the same peoples who write bad SQL could also write bad ORM code with N+1 queries. ORM has its place and optimized beautiful SQL has its place, a craftsman know which tool to use where and when to ask for help.

One of the problems, in my opinion, is that SQL isn't "cool" or hip and by many seen as not important to learn. While the new fancy Javascript based language or framework which nobody use and that will be replaced next week is much more important to learn.

Btw, get of my lawn :) /end old man rant

Yes, exactly!

> could also ORM code with N+1 queries

Oh, they absolutely do, and when we're lucky they actually catch them on their own before they get to code review. Some folks reach for tools like Bullet [0] and, that's great, but unfortunately, sometimes they treat that tooling like the Holy Gospel. They develop an over-reliance on them as if those tools exist to offload critical thinking. Drives me crazy... in my experience, it's been hard to combat this type of thing, too. The pace of "agile," the calculus between paying down technical debt and mentoring and progress, I don't really know why but I haven't had a lot of long-term luck.

> One of the problems, in my opinion, is that SQL isn't "cool" or hip and by many seen as not important to learn.

I think you're really right about that. I happen to like writing SQL quite a bit and I take a little bit of pride in that I kind of sort of actually understand a little about what is going on in the database and even then I neglect that skill. I picked up copies of both "SQL Anti-Patterns" and "SQL Performance Explained" based on recommendations from this thread and am eager to get in to them this weekend. Still lots to learn... And, I have some SQL problems that I can see coming up over the horizon today and I hope this gives me the edge I need to start grappling with them sooner rather than later.

[0]: https://github.com/flyerhzm/bullet