At some level I feel like they should just drop paint and install paint.net as a default.

But then, that would probably get paint.net on a downward spiral, so maybe it's for the best?

Paint.NET was open source (MIT) until 2009, alas nothing happened from the forks after they changed the license.

Code is still available, not sure worth building though in 2023 when there are other options

https://code.google.com/archive/p/openpdn/

https://github.com/rivy/OpenPDN/